Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Thanks for posting an update on the 26th, Aunt Janet!

Christmas was awesome. Home Sweet Home... My dad was in his own home for the first time since 8/23/10. Kim & I, all the grandchildren with their significant others, were in attendance. The mood was festive, the food was delicious. The first thing my dad wanted to do was go through all the rooms. So while the food was receiving it's final touches, Joe wheeled him in/out of every room. He said all rooms looked a lot smaller than he remembered them , but that everything else looked the same:) I told that despite our busy schedules, we (Kim, Kristie, Joe, myself, etc.) have tried to keep everything up to snuff!

Therapy is going really well. Good news, each day my dad does an exercise to stregthen muscles that havn't been used in over 4 months. Bad news, there are a lot of muscles that weren't used. In 2 weeks I can see a huge improvement in knee bending, getting out of chair, standing up, balance, leg mobility and arms. We have every reason to believe he will improve that much more over the next 4 weeks when Kristie arrives. I told her to "get ready!"... Dad will be ready to move!

We are planning on going out for lunch or dinner on New Years Day then every weekend thereafter. We will incorporate home visits as well. All necessary to prepare for the day he moves back home for good.

Happy New Year to all! Praise God for this miraculous recovery!

Sunday, December 26, 2010

Dinner out

We had a great time on Wednesday. The four siblings and spouses plus two of his daughters and son-in-law met with Tip for dinner. I hadn't seen him since October and he looked great. He seemed to enjoy himself and was probably a little tired by the time we left at 9 o'clock. He said he took a nap in the afternoon. We saw the pictures of the car he was driving at the time of the accident. It's very hard to believe he survived that crash!

I haven't talked to Kim or Kay but I know he was looking forward to Christmas at his house yesterday. It's amazing how well he is doing and the effort he has put in to recover completely.

I hope everyone had a very Merry Christmas and will have a wonderful New Year.

Monday, December 20, 2010

Monday, December 20, 2010

Hello Everyone!

I am so happy to report yesterday's outing to Tom's life celebration was a HUGE success! Not only was my dad able to go, he was able to get himself in/out of my car with basically no assistance. We were gone 4 1/2 hours, staying at the event over 3 hours. There were so many of my dad's old friends (grade school & high school) there and everybody was so happy to see one another. It was really a heartfelt event on all accounts. The drive alone was such a pleasure for my dad, to be in a car, sitting in the passenger seat, riding along in "normal" transportation. He was very calm and so was I (for some reason:).

Today in therapy my dad continued to make huge progress. I wasn't there to count steps, but from what hear, I estimate he walked the 50+ steps back & forth twice, with a break in between sitting. The "break" is really sitting down in a chair then having to get back up from the chair and continue walking. The final walk was from one end of the therapy room all the way to his room! I would estimate that well over 100 steps! Total steps around 300! He reports he felt the steps to much more complete, he was breathing & talking:) He laughs about how he was holding his breath just last week! The biggest milestone though was at the end of therapy when he was given "independent" status which means he can get in/out of his bed/chair, go to the bathroom, etc. all by himself without assistance! Hooray!! The aids, by the way, report they will still come hang out in his room!

We are looking forward to our next outing Wednesday night, dinner in Waterville with the sibs.

A happy & blessed holiday to all!

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Today my dad took 2 rounds of approximately 23 good steps using the walker. His steps were much more complete steps where earlier in the week they were shuffles. He is working on transporting himself from the bed to the chair, chair to exercise bike, chair to walker, chair to toilet (sorry folks:), etc. This is huge progress in the life of rehabbing. He gets a little discouraged at the s-l-o-w-ness of it all, but feels/looks good & appreciates that he is getting better everyday!

He is definitely "on" for Sunday's outing, then Christmas, then dinner with his siblings.

Thank you God!

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

At this post, I am happy to report my dad is making progress with his new therapy. He is able to stand for longer periods (3-10 min.) with breaks, taking steps down the walkway holding onto the bars. These steps are very slow, but no complaints...ya gotta start somewhere! He was able to make three trips down the walkway today, which is about 12 steps each trip. He said it was easier today, but not "pretty". I told him nobody is expecting it to be "pretty" just yet!

Therapy is also working on my dad transferring himself from the chair to the bike, which will assist in his transfer from the chair to the car! There are several people who just can't wait to get him out for the afternoon, maybe lunch, a stop at his house or just a drive! I am beginning to think we are more anxious than he:-)

Hopefully, he will be able to attend the Tom Wodarski's life celebration on Sunday. Then Christmas!

Keep praying!

Friday, December 10, 2010

Friday, December 10, 2010 part 2

I just talked to my dad... He stood for one minute holding on to the bars on either side of him. He is so excited, said he couldn't believe it! He was worried he would be dizzy and was glad he was not. His knees were, however, shouting at him when he sat down, but that is/was to be expected. Also, he's happy to be going back to therapy this afternoon!

Whoohoo new chapter!

Friday, December 10, 2010

YES!!!!!!! My dad was given full weight bearing status on all limbs starting right now! Yay yay yay!! Thank you God!

P.S. My dad was the only patient in Dr. Jaeblon's office today! I think he came in just for my dad:) Soooo sweet:)

Thursday, December 9, 2010

Thursday, December 9, 2010

Today we hoped would be a big day for my dad at the orthopedic doctor's office... Not at all. After being transported from Waterville to Sylvania, lying on a stretcher & waiting over one hour in a crowded waiting room, a technician opens the door to tell us all that the x-ray machine is not working. Normally they would send patients across the hall to St. Anne's Radiology Center, however, that center is closed today! Grrrrr....... We will try again tomorrow morning. The machine is supposed to be fixed and if not, the center across the hall is scheduled to be open. Just another bump in the road...

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

As we prepare for Thanksgiving we are first & foremost thankful my dad is here with us today:)Thank you God, all healthcare professionals, family, friends, colleagues, and anybody else!

Good news, my dad continues to make steady progress despite some lingering medical issues. He has experience blood pressure drops again, always in the afternoon, always after sitting it the chair for period of time. It doesn't happen every day, but is very frustrating as he will be absolutely fine then with little warning, hits rock bottom. I actually witnessed this for the first time on Saturday and it does come on quickly, requiring quick action. Once he lays down, within minutes everything is fine. Everyone was picking their brains, trying to figure this out. Break through...Apparently he was "sometimes" receiving BP meds twice daily, when it should only be once daily. Hopefully this is resolved once & for all.

The urologist appointment went well & I'm sure the doctor was going to remove the cath; however, my dad pleaded his case & the doc gave in. My dad is worried if the cath comes out he will get another UTI; therefore, wants to wait until he can stand. We are hoping he can bear weight on one leg in a few weeks. As you can tell, this inability to bear weight on the legs puts one in a position for a number of complications. Sigh... Due to the above isuses, we will not be bringing my dad home for Thanksgiving afternoon. It was his suggestion, he is fine with it and so are we.

On the bright side, last weekend my dad was given the go head to walk the chair with his feet. He quickly learned how to maneuver his wheelchair with his feet! Mobile Mel! He made it down to the door to greet me. Soooo awesome & such a huge surprise! He was soooo happy! He felt the pain in his knees on Monday, and decided he better leave the trips to the door for days when he doesn't have therapy. The therapists continue to work with his knees getting to around 75 degrees. Dr. Jaeblon would like to see 80. He will get there. Another milestone, my dad was sitting in a "regular" chair yesterday when I arrived. His butt was tired from the same old wheelchair seat so he asked to sit in the guest chair. If nothing else, it was normalcy/change!

Sad news... my dad's best friend since childhood, Tom Wodarski, passed away this week. Rest in peace, Tom, you will be missed. There will be a celebration of Tom's life on 12/19 in Point Place. We are hoping my dad can attend that for a bit, then Christmas.

Happy Thanksgiving to all and thank you for your ongoing support over the last three months!

Monday, November 15, 2010

Monday, November 15, 2010

Just got back from the gastroenterology appointment. Great news... upper GI is 100% healed! Yay! My dad handled the procedure extremely well and was chatty when he woke up from the anesthetic:) One less doctor to visit!

Thursday, November 11, 2010

Thursday, November 11, 2010

I just got back from the doctor.

In a nutshell... Not the news we wanted to hear, but not bad. No weight bearing yet. Doctor said it would have been a stretch to bear weight at this point regardless of age, it's just the nature of the beast. The joints are involved which requires additional time and not something you want to mess with. We will return in four weeks to reevaluate.

Good news... All injury spots are progressing nicely, no more boot, right leg is actually improving quicker than the left & will probably be the first leg to bear weight. Remember, that was the leg in which everything was "shattered"! The left femur injury was worse than the right, involving the knee, pins, etc. Doctor said it is a possibility there may be a "fine tuning" surgery at some point to remove some of the hardware.

Sad news... Dr. Jaeblon has accepted a new position in another state and will be leaving the first of the year. He has been such a strong player in my dad's recovery that it is hard to imagine him not part of the team. Thankfully the trauma surgery is behind us!

We are still planning on bringing my dad home (his house) for the afternoon on Thanksgiving. Next week we will be visiting the gastro doctor on Monday and the urologist on Thursday. I will write again after that.

Thank you blog readers for all your support!

Friday, November 5, 2010

Friday, November 5, 2010

Hello Blog Readers,

It's time for a weekly follow up. My dad is doing really, really good, both mentally and physically. The cardiology visit went well on Wednesday. Dr. Bingle did not feel my dad has any serious cardiac issues going on, that the initial low blood pressure readings were due to the stress ulcer and the continued low readings were due to too much medication. He will follow up with Dr. Bingle in 3 months (once he is actively moving around) just to be sure everything is still OK.

Physical therapy is doing wonders for my dad. He is now able to "walk" while sitting. When he does this he is actually picking each leg up fully, trying to reprogram the muscles in preparation for the day he can step down & begin to walk again. There has been lot of improvement with range of motion in his knees & ankles. He also, can now scootch himself up in bed with his upper body after placing the lower end of the bed on incline. One must be creative!!

Next Thursday is going to be a BIG day. That is the orthopaedic doctor visit at which time the doctor will x-ray all fractured/healing areas and determine whether or not my dad can start placing weight on his left leg & left forearm. Please pray!!! The right leg is not far behind. Once he reaches that goal, the caregivers at Heartland are sure my dad will walk out the door!!

At this pace, we are hopeful my dad will be able to come home for the afternoon on Thanksgiving. He is, in fact, already making plans!

I thank you again for your continued prayers, visits, phone calls & cards:) Regardless of how you have reached out, each one has helped brighten my dad's day & encouraged him through this long road to recovery.

Friday, October 29, 2010

Friday, October 29, 2010

Great News!!

I just checked in with my dad to find out how his day has gone since I left 10 am this morning. He informed me that he was in the chair for 5 hours!! Whoohoo! This is huge progress! His day consisted of breakfast, grooming, shower, PT, hair cut, lunch, OT, back to room to watch TV & read the newspaper. Earlier, I thought he looked the best he has since the accident. I have said that numerous time and each time it is the truth. He really is getting better!

I am so happy I can hardly contain myself!!

Thursday, October 28, 2010

Thursday, October 28, 2010

My dad is back in Waterville and feeling much better. Best put, when he arrived at the hospital Monday night he didn't care how long he stayed. This morning he didn't care when they discharged him (i.e. he was ready to leave). What a difference 4 days has made. Thank the Lord for medical professionals!

He's looking forward to getting through the next 3 weeks doctor's appointments, most importantly, the orthopedic doctor on 11/11. Praying he can begin to bear weight on the left forearm & left leg. Until then... he'll be doing everything he can do to prepare himself for that big day!

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Short update...

My dad is in St. V's with a urinary tract infection. He had been having symptoms for a few days then yesterday these symptoms became worse. Perhaps the UTI could have been the culprit of some or most of his back pain. Nursing thinks he'll be there 2-3 days. At the time of this post my dad says he's glad to be in the right place to be properly treated & is looking forward to getting over this hump.

There will be no rest for the weary as wound care had already been in this morning, ortho was going to be called, PT will be in & urology was to be consulted.

I will post again once I know more.

Friday, October 22, 2010

Friday, October 22, 2010

Hello tipsroadtorecovery blog readers,

I apologize for the hiatus in writing... suffice to say, life has been busy. As the old saying goes, no news is good news. With respect to my dad's recovery it is time to report good news!

Let me start with therapy which has been going well with the exception of hitting a wall after 1 1/2 hours. All along it was thought it was "pain" that kicked in after this time period. Once it was discovered it was not actually pain, but dizziness, light headedness, etc., gears switched. The medical staffed discovered just today that my dad has been on his pre-accident blood pressure medicine, which he does not need at this time if sedentary life. Tomorrow will be the first day with no blood pressure meds so we pray this takes care of the dizzyness problem. Therapy is very, very pleased with all his progress and getting over this hump will definitely be a big step in the right direction.

Yesterday another milestone was crossed when the catheter was removed! Like anyone would be after 2 months of literally not having to worry about physically going pee, my dad was a bit nervous. Today he reports all things are working properly, his worries relieved. He was able to sit on the side of the bed this morning for 1/2 hour with very little assistance. By 1 p.m. he was ready to do it again so he could sit & read the newspaper. The therapist asked for me to bring in a left shoe so he can start to get the feel of sitting with his shoe on.

Last Saturday I brought my dad's favorite sandwich, chicken salad from Panera for lunch. Of course, he told me it wasn't necessary. I brought it anyway & of course, he really enjoyed it. When asked what I should bring tomorrow for lunch, he said "Panera!"! He has been enjoying going outside for a walks around the Waterville campus on the weekends & we are hoping the nice weather continues:)

November will be busy with doctor appointments. We will be visiting cardiology, orthopedics & gastrointestinal, respectively. These appointments are all follow ups & as of today we are encouraged and hopeful we will have positive progress reports from all docs.

Despite the progress, my dad's days are still long. He loves visitors, phone calls & cards, in fact, I know he wouldn't be doing this well without all the outside support. Along with nurses, aids & therapy, it is his family & friends that are giving him the love and encouragement he needs to get through this very challenging time.

Praise God for His blessings!

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Thank you for yesterday's post, Aunt Janet. It's mind boggling to think back about everything that has happened over the last 7 weeks.

My dad continues to improve in his world of recovery. He has an occasional bad day which compared to the first 4 weeks, really aren't bad at all. His therapists, who have become his best friends (along with the nurses/aids) have reassured him an occasional bad day is par for the course and not to worry. Everyone in the facility is very encouraged with his progress.

I notice he is more focused in conversation & when watching TV, is doing more things for himself & looks better too! I had to chuckle when he told me how he retrieved his remote from the garbage can the night before. He knew he had to get it out b/c the cleaning people come in at all hours to empty the trash. He could have pulled his call light for help, but no no, it was time for a challenge! So by himself he rolled all the way over towards the can, both arms hanging down in the can, rummage through the can, grab the remote & somehow got himself properly positioned back in bed! I told him it was a good thing nobody walked by the room & saw him or they would have yelled "help!"!!

Last weekend's walks outside were a milestone and a blessing. On Saturday he only agreed to go out after my insistig it really would be a good thing to do. I could tell he enjoyed it, but wasn't totally sold. On Sunday when I arrived he was ready to go! We sat by the pond & talked for a while then took the long route back. I was so happy that I took his pic and when he smiled without me asking, I knew he was really enjoying himself:)

He (we) is going to miss Aunt Janet's weekly visits as she heads down to her winter home. She, (along with Judy, John & Bob) have become such strong support system to my dad throughout this journey. We are grateful for them and for all the other family/friends/co-workers who continue to stop by, call or send a card!

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

New Update

I went to see my brother again today, in the afternoon. The last two times he was in therapy when I got there so I was surprised to see him in bed. He said he usually has therapy in the mornings now. I think that way he comes back has lunch and can rest or take a nap in the afternoon. He says the therapy tires him out and I can believe it. The Physical Therapist works on his legs and muscles for an hour and then the Occupational Therapist works on his hand and arm muscles for an hour, not much of a break inbetween.

When sitting in the wheelchair he is now able to bend his knees so his feet are flat on the floor. He couldn't do that last week. He is pleased with the progress he is making but restless that it takes so long. He mentioned that he will see the doctor in four weeks and one day (not that he is counting) and is hoping he will be allowed to begin putting weight on his legs and use weight bearing on his left arm. He'll need to have a strong left arm be able to use a walker. He is really looking ahead. He said he realizes he would not be able to stand right now and the exercises are getting him ready for that.

We talked about the nice weather. I told him Kay sent a picture of him outdoors in the wheelchair. He said when he first went out on Saturday he was a little apprehensive about leaving his safe place. He said it was better on Sunday.

I told him I wouldn't see him until December when we come back for Christmas and that I'm sure he will be doing much better by then. I also said I would call him every week and see how he is doing and I want good reports. He just smiled. He still has a great attitude but he said some days are so difficult, his muscles don't always do what they are supposed todo. Then he said the next day everything is great.

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Thursday October 7, 2010

Today was my dad's first trip out of Waterville that wasn't to a hospital:) He had an appointment with the orthopedic surgeon whose office just happens to be in Sylvania just down the road from the lab. We joked with the MedCorp driver about taking the scenic route back which would include a drive through the lab parking lot. Ha!

The doctor reports everything on the outside is looking healing very, very nicely, especially the R leg below the knee. That area is being watched closely since it was literally skin & bone, now skin & plate. Dr. X-rayed the R leg, said everything is healing nicely there, took all remaining sutures & staples out as well as the 3 hooks (which were apprx. 5 inches long!) that were in the R heel. My dad is now sporting a black boot on his R foot/ankle to keep it upright. We go back in 5 weeks at which time everything will be X-rayed. If all goes well there is good possibility he will be able to start bearing weight on the L forearm & L leg at that time. Five weeks seems like a long time and I know my dad was hoping it would be more like 3 weeks, but all other news was so positive that we will gladly take the 5 weeks!

He enjoyed the outing and it was a beautiful morning for travel. This afternoon he'll have therapy and by this evening he will probably be wiped out. We are grateful for God's many blessings:)

Saturday, October 2, 2010

Another step on the road

A wonderful surprise happened yesterday. My brother was able to sit in a wheelchair for the first time. They had been using this huge recliner type chair on wheels. I don't think it was very comfortable but it allowed him to go to and from therapy. Yesterday they put him in a wheelchair and to quote him - "I was shocked". But very happy. He told me his feet actually touched the floor. This is a baby step but to him it is huge.

He has such a wonderful attitude. Hopefully soon he will get strength in his left arm and then maybe be able to move himself. As my niece said he is relearning how to do the easiest tasks that we all take for granted. Here's to more baby steps!

Thursday, September 30, 2010

Thursday, September 30, 2010

Here we are on the last day of September, 2010. My dad told me this morning that he was happy to see a new month coming in.... In his world, which was forever changed on 8/23, moving forward on the calendar is everything!! He has been spending much time in the therapy room as well as sitting in the reclining chair. Everyday doing a little bit more than the day before. He has started to notice/see improvement which is a milestone in that it was previously everyone except him who noticed & told him of his improvement. HE is finally seeing it himself! When we talk of improvement we are many times speaking of tiny tasks that one would not even think about doing like touching your left ear with your left hand! He understands everyday what a long road he has ahead of him BUT he/we are very encouraged!

If anyone has been wondering when a good time to visit would be, this weekend would be good! I will be out of town and Kim will be working off/on over the weekend. Thanks to everyone who has visited, prayed, sent a card or called! It is because of you and faith that my dad has found reason to keep going every single day!

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Rehab - what fun

I went to see my brother yesterday. I found him in the therapy room working weights with each hand alternating. Then he had arm stretches and worked his fingers in his left hand. The OT had him using pegs for muscle control and had him doing other things to strengthen his arms and hands. I missed the part where they were working on his legs. He has therapy every day for at least an hour and it really wears him out. But he does work hard to get his strength back. He doesn't complain and always has an upbeat attitude.

He was tired when he got back to his room. It took some time for the staff to get him back to bed as they have to use a lift and it was in use. He had to wait his turn.

All in all it was a good day but he does tire after all the therapy. He enjoys getting cards. He has quite a collection. He appreciates all the cards and prayers.

Friday, September 24, 2010

Friday, September 24, 2010

My dad was moved back to Heartland in Waterville, Room 508, last night. He's is in much better spirits, eating normal foods again and working on stretching his left hand (along with everything else that he can move). Still very weak & says he feels like a rag doll. Joe & I are going to set the new HD television up in his room tomorrow. That should make for much more pleasant TV viewing since all he's had is a 9" swing out from the wall with no remote. Small blessings!

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Dad continues to move forward. He is now in Ortho unit, room 234. Ortho docs were in at their usual 5:00 a.m. time:) They reported the x-rays taken yesterday of all the surgical sights looked very good & removed the left arm wrappings. That was huge for my dad:) Now all the staples & sutures are out & although no weight bearing, he sort of has 2 arms again! GI is coming along, although still experiences some lingering effects from Saturday's events. BTW, the diagnosis was bleeding stress ulcer, which was caused by all the stress to his body following the accident. Apparently, this complication is somewhat common in these circumstances. Diet is going to be gradually increased to soft solids. Broth, soda, jello & ice cream are growing old as you can imagine. PT was in this afternoon while Kristie was there. She reports it's more stretching than what one would think of typical PT. If all continues to go well, discharge should be within the next day or two.

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

First, thanks to Aunt Janet for posting the update on Saturday and sorry it has taken me so long to add to it!

As previously stated, the weekend was very stressful. It was clear on Friday my dad wasn't looking or acting good and by evening his blood pressure was very low. He had gone through a tough physical therapy session earlier in the day and the thought was he just overdid it. By Saturday morning it was obvious that was not the case. He was rushed to St. Luke's & right away the nurse could tell he was losing blood, likely site, upper GI. Throughout the day he was given 3 untis of blood, numerous boluses of fluid & multiple meds to keep him stable. Plan was to admit to ICU and consult the GI docs. The OR's were full as were the ICU beds, so the wonderful ER nurse (who has 5 years experience in ICU) tracked down the GI doc, explained my dad's situation/history & asked if was possible to perform the endoscopy right in the ER room. Doc agreed (thank you God!) so around 4:30 p.m. they moved the equipment into the room & did their job. An hour later the door opened & we got the good news they found the bleed site, it was cauterized & bleeding stopped. Horray!! Kim & I were able to go right in with him at that time & he looked better immediately. His comment "it felt like the kitchen sink went down his throat!!" Ahhh... the procedure was done with very little pain meds as to not lower his BP any further. It was either that or back on the vent and NOBODY wanted that. Another hurdle he passed.

Still no available ICU beds so it was off to St. V's via ground Life Flight. I had the pleasure following the unit and could see the male nurse & my dad chatting the whole way. Such a nice sight!! Since then he as been poked at least 50 times for blood since they are closely monitoring his hemoglobin, potassium and other things. He has required 1 additional unit of blood, but the nurse said that was not unusual given the amount he lost. He had probably been bleeding sporadically for a week or longer. No wonder he wasn't hungry!!

My dad has advanced from ice chips to a liquid diet & cleaned his tray entire this morning! Small blessings:) He's still in the ICU, but has been cleared for transfer to a step-down room. Just waiting for a bed to become available... Hmmm we seem to be hearing this a lot lately! The ortho docs were in this morning and said his surgery sites were looking good, wound care nurse agreed.

Kristie arrives this afternoon and my dad is looking forward to seeing her. As you can imagine by now, there are many complications that could arrive, uninvited, at any given time. Thank God each one has had a happy ending to date. We pray for my dad to continue moving forward with his recovery. We have been blessed thus far in this long road to recovery. Praise God!

Sunday, September 19, 2010

Hectic Saturday

The information I have was gotten though phone calls, a lot of phone calls. My brother was not feeling well and was given a milk of magnesia type of medication. His stools were very dark and shortly after his blood pressure dropped quite a bit. He was taken the St. Luke's Hospital as it was the closest. He was given two pints of blood, I think, as they tried to figure out what was wrong. They thought it might be internal bleeding. They did a scope down to his stomach and found a small stress ulcer in his stomach. They were able to cauterize it.

He was transported back to St. Vincent's hospital since they are familiar with him. They took him there last night and he will be there for another day or two so they can keep an eye on things.

I talked to my brother Bob this morning and Tip is doing good. He is alert and talkative. He knows he didn't feel well but doesn't remember all the rest, which is probably good.

It was a stressful day for all of us but especially his girls. I didn't go to the hospital because Jim and I both have colds and we didn't want to spread the germs.

By the way Kay, HAPPPY BIRTHDAY! Now you can relax and enjoy your day. You have something to celebrate with your dad doing so well again.

Friday, September 17, 2010

Friday, September 17, 2010

Dad continues to show improvement while in rehabilitation. He can move both legs together now which is huge! He says the legs "talk to each other" once again. Along with healing of all the surgery sights, the biggest challenge he faces each day is how to deal with laying in bed. Blaaa anybody that knows my dad knows he doesn't do well when he's not on the move & not in control! He is counting the days until his next doctor visit which is 9/28. Hopefully he'll get a good report and a time frame as to when he can begin putting pressure on his left leg & left arm.

To celebrate my birthday this weekend I am buying him a new TV, one with a remote. Hard to believe the facility doesn't have one, but they do not. Sunday we will share a special treat from the restaurant of his choice. He's supposed to be thinking about what food he's craving. So far, nothing has struck home! Wish us luck & pray for continued recovery!

Thanks:)

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

My dad was cleared by the cardiologist today for discharge. Whatever procedure needing to be done from the cardio standpoint is not urgent and the doctor recommended it wait until my dad is further along in his recovery. He was in much better spirits this morning and once again, improving after a major surgery. Even though his body has been treated like a machine, we must remember he is not! Physical therapy has been working him hard bedside bending him every which way and sitting him on the side of his bed, feet dangling, him mumbling. He continues to accomplish tasks that he thought he would not be able to do.

As I write he is on his way back to Heartland of Waterville and as far as he was concerned, this trip could not have come soon enough. Although he has had excellent care, he has had enough of the hospital! I guess it was best he slept through the first 8 days:)

Please continue to pray for his recovery, that the Lord provide him with the strength, positive attitude and will he needs to move forward each day. Also, feel free to call or occasionally stop by & visit him in Waterville!

Thanks for all your support thus far!

Monday, September 13, 2010

Monday update

A test was done today on his heart, probably because of his history. There is a minor partial blockage but the doctor doesn't seem too concerned about it. At some future date a stent might be in the picture. Tip would like it later, others in the family would prefer it to happen while he is still in the hospital.

He wants to go back to rehab at Waterville today but it will most likely be tomorrow. He is getting stronger by the day and hopefully he will be able to strengthen his upper body. It will be some time before he can put any weight on his legs. He has his cell phone with him in Heartland of Waterville. He does get bored at times but we aren't sure right now how much time will be spent in rehab once he returns.

He will need strength and support from family and friends as he goes through what most likely will be a long recuperation. Thanks again for all the good thoughts and prayers. I might have mentioned this before but I want to mention it again, I think we have seen a miracle.

Saturday, September 11, 2010

Friday's surgery

He did well. The doctor was happy that they were able to do all they planned on doing. When asked if there would be more surgery he said none is planned. He actually smiled - for the first time - when speaking with us. He had been poker faced and would always say what "might" or "could" happen. He seemed very upbeat and that reassured all of us.

He will remain in the hospital a day or two so they can keep an eye on him. He will then return to the nursing home/rehab center. I would imagine that there they will work on strengthening him in ways they can. His left arm has to heal as both bones were broken so that will take awhile. Also he is not allowed to put any weight on his legs for several months.

It will be a long recovery and in rehab. This will be hard on him because he wants to do things now. Thank you everyone for your support in this first phase of his recovery. Please continue to keep him in your thoughts and prayers.

Thursday, September 9, 2010

Thursday September 9, 2010

Dad's surgery to repair his R tibia and remove the fixator bar is scheduled for tomorrow, (Friday, 9/10/10). He will be in the hospital again for 1-3 days & hopefully this will be the last stay for a while. He is a little nervous stating this is the first surgery he has been awake for! Totally understandable statement.. I tried to reassure him that the doctor said tomorrow's surgery should be quick compared to the others, but not sure that helped. Also pretty tired from yesterday's therapy saying if the therapy people forget to come get him today that would be just fine:) Please pray for successful surgery & continued recovery.

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Dad did well in his PT. He gets tired easy, but moving in the right direction. The surgery postponed until tomorrow. Kay has explained to me that "Dad is a MODEL patient"!!!

Wednesday September 8, 2010

My dad continues to improve. Very much in tune to everything that has happened and going to happen. This morning he was put in a recliner which is only the 3rd time he's been out of a bed in 16 days. The therapy people were coming to get him when I was leaving. Not sure how much they'll be able to do, but just sitting up & working his right arm will be huge steps in the right direction. He's making friends with his caregivers and basically everybody that comes into his room. Praise God for healing thus far!

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Lots to report since the Saturday update. My dad is doing really, really well all things considered. He is much more oriented to his surroundings, the accident, the present & the future. He has differentiated what was a dream & what really happened. On Sunday he was happy to wake up & know where he was! He can now pick up both arms & stretch them above his head, adjust his upper body a bit in bed, operate his remote bed, his cell phone & feed himself. All these things make him feel a little independent, which is very important in his world right now. I talked to the therapy people and they are going to be putting him in the reclining chair (with wheels) and take him for rides to get him out of the room. Also, they'll sit him on the side of the bed (he's been asking) and do some strengthening with his right arm. His face looks great and his swelling is gone. Kim brought in his high school football picture which has turned out to be a great conversation starter for everybody who walks into his room. No surprise there:)))) He is grateful for life & for the love and care he's received from all the professionals, family & friends these last two weeks. The next surgery is scheduled for Friday 9/10/10 at 8:30 a.m., St. V's. The plan is to fix the right tibia & remove the last stablizing bar. Doctor said it will be done outpatient so if they keep him overnight that will be the extent of the stay. Please pray for a successful surgery!!

Sunday, September 5, 2010

Saturday's visit

Tip was having a day of rest. He talked to the rehab person and they discussed a plan. Not much happening this weekend as it is a holiday weekend. He did pretty good eating. He is getting better movement of his right arm and said he'd be glad when the left arm, which has a cast on it, would be more useful. He watched some football on TV. But mostly he rested after a busy day on Friday.

Friday, September 3, 2010

Friday's update

He had quite a day today. The Dr. saw him early this morning and said he is doing well. He may have his final surgery late next week. He had rehab and PT both today. They wanted him sitting up with his legs over the side of the bed. He can't do it by himself yet but he did his best. He received more cards today and enjoyed reading them.

Then around 4:30 the "bus" came and took him to Heartland of Waterville for rehab. He will be there until the next surgery which will be done at St. Vincent's. One of the doctors talked to his daughter Kay today and said Tip is doing remarkably well. He also said in his opinion he will be able to do anything he did before the accident.
That is HUGE. I don't think any of us thought this would be possible.

He was resting around six oclock this evening so that he would be awake to watch the U of Toledo game against Arizona tonight on ESPN. He was supposed to be at the game. He's had season tickets for years.

He is at Heartland of Waterville, 8885 Browning, room 508. Take Antony Wayne Trail west through Waterville. Just beyond Farnsworth Park turn right on Neowash Rd. and then right again at Browning.

Thursday's progress

I didn't see Tip on Thursday but according to his daughter he was sitting in a chair for two hours. His right arm and hand aren't as stiff as they were. He is in good spirits and enjoyed a friend from work that visited with him for a couple of hours. His coloring is better each day. He slept better Wed. night and seems alert.

It looks like he will be moving on to another place on Friday. I will put that information on here as soon as I know.

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Eventful day

My niece Kristie wrote about Tip's morning. He afternoon was busy. They moved him to step-down ICU and removed all sorts of tubes, wires and whatall. He had lunch, again real food, and they also had him dangle his legs! This is with two broken legs, one severly. Unbelievable that he can do this. He's doing all the things the Dr. and nurses ask him to so he gets better. He's had a load of company today. He didn't sleep last night, might be because he slept for 8 days. They wanted him stimulated late afternoon and into evening so he would be tired tonight. So we'd ask him questions and talk about all kinds of things. He ate part of his dinner and then had a milkshake that he really enjoyed. He was disappointed the Cleveland Indians game was at noon and he had missed it. He finally seemed tired a little after 8 o'clock and we left.

He is on very little pain medication. The pain meds he was on earlier are wearing off but make him a little fuzzy. But basically he is doing quite well. It's nice to have our brother back and my nieces and his grandchildren are thrilled with his progress also.
Like my sister Kay said, we are sooooo thankful to have are father with us. I had the opportunity to speak with him briefly. Mentally, he seems to be taking this news well. He was able to sit in a chair today for 15 minutes and 1 second! He ate breakfast, but got tired pretty fast...to be expected. Thank you for all of your kinds words, thoughts and prayers...I believe it all helped! We are still worried of course, but are so very thankful that he is alive!!!!!

Tuesday Follow-up

Much has happened after the last post. All good things... feeding tube out, central line out of his chest & now in his arm, neck brace off, talking more clearly, ate 2 helpings of jello and mind is less fuzzy. Believe it or not, there have even been a few chuckles:) God Bless my dad and love him:) He is obviously in complete disbelief, can't believe this happened, but did say he is up for the challenge it will take to recover. I don't think there is a man possessing more stubborness & determination. There have been times I thought these were not great attributes (ha!), but as with all things in life, there is a reason and by golly, this just may be the reason! Looking forward to going back to the hospital in a few hours to seeing him again. If all goes well, he will most likely be transferred out of ICU within the next day and from there we are hoping for one of the Rehab Centers, Flower or MUO. This health care system doesn't let one settle in any one place too long. This may be a good thing for my dad... he likes to keep moving!!!

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

Good Tuesday update

  1. A little before 2:00 this afternoon they removed the vent from Tip. They ran tests first to make sure he would be breathing on his own. He passed the tests with flying colors! Now he can talk. It's a little scratchy and mumbled but he can communicate with us. They have cut his sedatives in half. If all goes well he might have a little food this evening. He doesn't remember the accident so Kay told him about it. He also didn't realize 8 days had gone by since the accident. I don't think he understands a lot of what he was told but it is beginning to sink in. I'm sure he'll have lots of questions as his mind clears and he gets stronger. It is good to see some of the tubes taken off.

Monday, August 30, 2010

Follow up with Highway Patrol

I just received a phone call from the Highway Patrol/State Trooper. Very disturbed to hear the driver of the vehicle who caused the accident was under the influence of prescription drugs plus there were illegal drugs found in the car. Probable DUI charge, just waiting to get all test results back. My dad so didn't deserve this and I am praying to make some sense out of it all. Right now I'm feeling a rage of anger.

Monday surgery

Tip is now out of surgery and resting comfortably in ICU Trauma. They repaired his left femur. We were mistaken about his right lower leg and knee. It looked like it was bandaged like other places where he had surgery but today they worked on this. They repaired one of the lower legs bones (fibula and tibia). I think it was the tibia but not sure. They also worked on his knee and did some bone grafting. The other bone area is still swollen and they won't work on it yet. It is badly messed up. They will see how things go and fix it later, in two to four weeks. The heel/ankle are still worrisome. They skin is not in good shape and this area cannot have a skin graft because it is on the bone. The doctors are keeping an eye on it.

He did well during the surgery and will spend the rest of the day resting. He might have the ventilator removed sometime this week, possibly as soon as Tues. In the near future he will be moved to a skilled care center. They cannot rehab him yet as he won't be allowed to put any weight on his legs for several months. They will begin therapy though. He will be brought back to the hospital for future surgeries.

I will be visiting him later today and will update here if there is any more information.

I did not post yesterday as there had been no change. Like Saturday it was a day of rest.

Saturday, August 28, 2010

A day of rest

Tip is doing well today, Saturday, resting. The ventilator was turned off for 8 hours today which is good. I found out today the doctors did do surgery on his right femur yesterday as well as the right lower leg, left arm and heel/ankle.

Monday morning they will be doing his left femur. I'm not sure but I think this will be the end of the major surgeries. As stated before the heel and ankle site will most likely need more surgeries.

His blood pressure was elevated for a time today and there are many reasons for this - discomfort, pain, he was moved to different positions a couple of times. His body temperature was slightly elevated but the doctor doesn't think it is infection as his white blood count is good. All in all he is doing well. He will have another rest day tomorrow before the surgery on Monday.

Friday, August 27, 2010

Friday's results

Everything went well today. The surgeons set his left arm, it is now in a cast. They also fixed his right lower leg with pins and plates and other stuff. This was a difficult part. They also worked on his ankle/heel on his right foot. I'm guessing that there will be more work on this area as it is pretty well smashed up. They also put a filter in his aorta to trap any clots, bone debris, etc. Laura said this is normal and done in most surgeries like this.

I saw him tonight and he looks good, his skin coloring is normal. He is doing well with breathing, blood pressure and pulse. I don't know how to read the other lines on the monitor.

His next surgery is scheduled for Monday and I think they will be working on his femur in each leg.

Thursday, August 26, 2010

Thursday update

I visited Tip at the hospital this afternoon. Today is a day of resting. He is on pain medication and is also sedated. He is in no pain and is breathing on his own. All of his vital signs are good.

Tomorrow will be a very difficult day for him. The doctors want to repain the femur in both legs and set his arm. The problem is the bones are shattered in his legs. They also want to be careful not to stress his heart. It will be a long surgery. Please pray for him and the surgeons working on repairing his legs.

Tip's journey begins

This should be an easier way to follow the progress of my brother, Tip as he goes through the process of healing after the auto accident.

For those who don't know what happened he was involved in an auto accident on Monday morning. The car he was driving was hit head on by another car. Three people were in the other car, a woman and her two grandchildren. All were sent to the hospital, the woman and her grandson were the most seriously hurt. Tip was driving in his job and never saw the car coming.

Monday the doctor's stabilized his legs and arm fractures, checked out his heart and tried to get his breathing and blood pressure stabilized. There was considerable damage done to his legs. He had a surgery Wednesday to clean up around his right heel to prevent infection.

I will try to add to this post as new information is learned.